Your relationship workspace
Start with preferences. Move at your pace.
Tell Affinity what matters to you, choose how much help you want, and review introductions before any conversation becomes personal.
Complete your private profile
Affinity can suggest better introductions when it understands your intent, languages, boundaries, and preferred pace.
Watching for risky patterns
My Profile
What Affinity should know about you
Keep personal notes private, then decide what small summary can be shown when someone may be a good fit.
Settings
Choose how much help you want
You can change these permissions anytime. Important decisions stay visible and confirmable.
A1 · Drafts
Affinity can draft messages and notes, but you confirm every send.
Affinity cannot make sexual consent, marriage, legal, financial, or medical decisions for a person.
Matches
People worth considering
Review compatibility, verification notes, and safety signals before opening a conversation.
Select a match to review fit
Messages
Private conversation
Messages are saved by the MVP server. Affinity highlights scam, pressure, and sensitive-data risks as you talk.
Plans
Plan a low-pressure first meeting
Choose public, practical options while keeping contact sharing and meeting confirmation under your control.
No active connection
Exploring
Activity
Your saved activity
Review the server state used by this Alpha: permissions, introductions, messages, plans, and safety events.